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[–] MenHaveItEasy 47 points (+47|-0)

I'd really reccomend trying to find some trans people to share photos with and see what they think. Try to share them with FTMs because they won't be as good at picking you apart as a MTF.

"Ask TIFs because they are women, and women are conditioned to give you free asspats and therapy whenever you demand, and will likely sympathize with you that men have the harder life."

Women are better at sniffing out frauds, and suspicious of anything that feels off, because we have to be aware of our own safety. Men prioritize "Muh dick" and would be easier to fool when there's least a half assed effort at "passing". Of course in person, nobody is fooled.

[–] XX_Power 20 points (+20|-0)

But because the TIFs are women they'll also just politely agree with him even if they could spot his maleness from a mile away

[–] viragoeternal 9 points (+9|-0)

it's crazy how they all know there are such big differences trending in behaviour between TIFs and TIMs yet not one of them will acknowledge it's socialisation

[–] LepistaNuda 1 points (+1|-0)

Men prioritize "Muh dick" and would be easier to fool when there's least a half assed effort at "passing".

I'm beginning to believe that the trope best exemplified by Bugs Bunny donning a blonde wig, dress and lipstick to befuddle Elmer Fudd has some basis in truth. It was also played up by Terry Pratchett in Jingo. There is truth to this and may be one of the reasons men are hard to reach on this subject. They do not see trans. They see ugly women that they would not fuck. Men do not look closely enough at first if certain boxes are ticked and can be totally fooled by 'feminine performance' so I don't pity them for this.