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When perverts flash, grope, and harass women in public, it's upsetting to the women, but it's troubling to men too. Because men might have to step up and do something, say something to those perverts.

Now, all the harassment is done out of sight of the "good guys." The pervs can go into the shelters and restrooms without fear of getting punched by a woman's husband/brother/father/friend.

You know how men turn a blind eye to sex crimes that happen in the family home? This is like the public version of that.

When perverts flash, grope, and harass women in public, it's upsetting to the women, but it's troubling to men too. Because men might have to step up and *do something, say something* to those perverts. Now, all the harassment is done out of sight of the "good guys." The pervs can go into the shelters and restrooms without fear of getting punched by a woman's husband/brother/father/friend. You know how men turn a blind eye to sex crimes that happen in the family home? This is like the public version of that.

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[–] Vita [OP] 29 points (+29|-0)

All men are cowards.

Too afraid to fight for weaker people (women will defend other women & children though, at risk to themselves!)

Too cowardly to be fashion-forward (women wore pants and new fashions in public, even if they got ridiculed!)

Too cowardly to face the consequences of their actions (trying to get out of men's prisons.)

Too afraid to face their own vices and weaknesses (AGP can only be treated if they admit they have it!)

My granny has more guts than most men I've met.

[–] XX_Power 2 points (+2|-0)

When you go through life on easy mode there's no need to become strong or brave.

[–] momofreyrella 22 points (+22|-0)

This is so spot-on and you articulated the problems so well! thank you for this

[–] shewolfoffrance 18 points (+18|-0)

The abusive men who weasel their way into female and feminist spaces by transing are the most cowardly and dishonest. I'm thinking Charlotte Clymer and Andrea Long Chu. They ignore or (worse yet) fetishize the real pain women suffer in a sexist world, but want everyone to excuse their past and current misdeeds because they were supposedly motivated by gender dysphoria.

[–] Peachy 11 points (+11|-0)

Men also call other men "simps" for just being nice to women.

[–] legopants 2 points (+2|-0) Edited

Is that what that is...? My friend group uses that for creepy ass men who WON'T leave a girl alone...

and yes there's a man in that group who uses it that way as well

[–] Luckystar 5 points (+5|-0)

I often find myself thinking "beta males are still males". Seems like a lot of these TIMs are just failed men so they think that somehow makes them not men. And other men are happy enough to kick them out of manhood... if it were possible

[–] jessebelleinhell 2 points (+2|-0) Edited

Thank you. That's kind of getting to what I've been saying for a while now. I honestly believe that these pro-tra type men that get really hostile towards us, are a lot of the time just trying to shove the problem off into our collective laps bc deep down they don't want to gave to deal with tims in their spaces. Insisting that TWAW! is the perfect solution to their problems while being able to save face if you think about it.. Once again, women are expected to clean up after their messes and just willingly accept this being shoved down our throat with no resistance or discussion as to how it effects us.

Years ago at a former job I was at, we had this tim, and the men would be all nice and really cool to his face, but behind his back, they were all like, " if he ever gets near me in the batbroom, I'm going to punch his lights out!" You could see the fear and rage in their faces (and obvious homophobia)..

This is a male problem that is being dumped onto us bc they don't want to deal with it themselves. It's way beyond your average male's comfort level. And as usual women and girls are expected to suffer for it- and why you never hear them ever offer up anything towards the trans community on their behalf. I have literally never seen it once. Just their "support" via shreaking, "TWAW!!" every time this subject comes up.

Men really are cowards and the lengths they will go through to manipulate others so that they don't expose themselves is really telling..