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[–] PeakyLen 40 points (+40|-0)

The framing of "I need to be in a loving relationship before I want sex with someone" as part of the asexual spectrum (honesty wtf?) is ridiculous.

Who exactly is setting up "I always want to shag everyone" as the standard in society? The straight queers? Incels?

Not to mention that I don't understand the need to publicise anything about your preferences - especially if in a long term committed relationship. I'm bi. I'm also married. I feel no desire or need to discuss/announce my bisexuality, because it means nothing unless I'm dating.

Everyone is so desperate to be seen as interesting and be talked about on social media. It's tragic.

[–] Sunrise_Plum 14 points (+14|-0)

So true. Bisexual and in commited relationship myself, it always baffles me when non single ppl come out as bi, or recently pansexual. Nobody cares and furthermore, what is your partner supposed to do with that information? Propose a threesome?

[–] Jade 7 points (+7|-0)

what is your partner supposed to do with that information? Propose a threesome?

Your partner and every single weirdo who overhears you, yep. That’s the protocol.