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So the premise of this episode is that you go on a date with someone and then you find out exactly how long that you have to be with them. The woman will find out that she only has like one day to be with these guys, and then they immediately go back to the house, and then she had sex she doesn't want to have every time. I hate how this is normal. I hate how she didn't have the idea to say no I don't want to have sex and I don't have to. I hate how it was just expected at the end of the day people have sex with each other whether they wanted to or not. Sex is not like just an activity that you do cuz you're bored.

So the premise of this episode is that you go on a date with someone and then you find out exactly how long that you have to be with them. The woman will find out that she only has like one day to be with these guys, and then they immediately go back to the house, and then she had sex she doesn't want to have every time. I hate how this is normal. I hate how she didn't have the idea to say no I don't want to have sex and I don't have to. I hate how it was just expected at the end of the day people have sex with each other whether they wanted to or not. Sex is not like just an activity that you do cuz you're bored.

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[–] VeggieAnnie 12 points (+13|-1)

I agree! Isn't it convenient for men that "progressive women's" sexuality now conveniently matches male sexuality (wanting to have casual sex/sex very early in a relationship)?

[–] lucrecia 12 points (+12|-0)

Isn't that the one where the characters are simulations effectively performing the calculations for a dating app AI? So by default the computer (and presumably a creepy programmer somewhere) wants to know what happens if they try.

[–] Omina_Sentenziosa 8 points (+9|-1) Edited

Where did you see that she had to have sex? I haven' t seen that episode in a while, but I remember a line in which they discuss what they can do after the dinner, and the characters talk about how they don' t have to do anything sexual if they don' t want to. I remember that she progressively grows bored with one night stands as time goes on, but I don' t remember her being forced to do anything in the least.

I am much more pissed off by the fact that they are forced (and that is forcing) to live with and date people for a certain amount of time even if they don' t want to, and never see them again even if they do want to.

Sex is not like just an activity that you do cuz you're bored.

Well... yes, it can be if you want it to be that way.

[–] kalina 5 points (+5|-0)

I don't think it was forced per se but they definitely showed characters having sex despite really not wanting to and it was kinda gross and depressing

[–] Stealthygal 0 points (+0|-0)

That is so much something that happens in relationships though. You might not feel like it but you know they probably do so you decide to have it so they don't get unhappy. Plot twist: you're both doing it just as relationship maintenance. Sex like that CAN develop into a nice experience though.

[–] Stealthygal 0 points (+0|-0)

I loved that episode to be honest.

Lucky! I wanted to enjoy it!

I hate the normalization of sex after a date whether you want to or not.

[–] Stealthygal 0 points (+0|-0)

True. I like that the end-game couple don't actually have sex on their one night date (IIRC). And of course thar they break the rules and thus the code to be together.

[–] overandout 0 points (+0|-0) Edited

I was with you up until the last line. If people genuinely want to, why not? It's a fun activity.

[–] Hooplaboopla -3 points (+4|-7)

Sex is not like just an activity that you do cuz you're bored.

For males, yes.

But for females, not that any men are good at making love or giving orgasms, but if they do, you will likely remember the man forever, because oxytocin is what foments pair-bonding.

It is what it is. Bang dudes if you want to forget them, make love if you want to remember.

[–] Rvy 7 points (+10|-3)

Saying that all men want sex at any time is like saying that all straight women are gold-diggers. Can we not perpetuate sexist stereotypes here?

My God what has happened to Ovarit

[–] LilyGoat 2 points (+2|-0)

Check out this users post history to make your eyes bleed. How they are not banned I have no idea. I knew who it was before reading the username. Mods delete her most vile comments

[–] Stealthygal 0 points (+0|-0)

Good Lord yes. An old lover of mine is literally the worst boyfriend material ever but wow the sex... he'll always be in my memories.